Other people have already pointed this, no response, but poor childhood?
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Other people have already pointed this, no response, but poor childhood?
To be honest I personally think its the weed(when you're sober obviously not high, meaning due to smoking day to day being sober heightens your anger, then when you get that first blunt in a niggas all cool n shit BUT). I have very bad anger issues, and have only seen them get worse not better (little more history i'm also battling depression/stress as well). What makes me help my anger issues really is not holding it in but yet looking at it from a different perspective. I.E.
This analogy is going to be weird but bare with me.
As it sort of follows this, and i quote this from Tekashi69 interview with Cole Bennett (hope you guys are into music like that) but, he states
"Look at the numbers 69, write them down, turn it upside down and keep doing that, but no matter how you look at it, it will always be 69. So say two people are looking at it one at top and one at bottom, they both see 69.
Now you sitting across from me seeing 69, say you're rich and im poor. Are you right because you're rich? and im wrong cause im poor? or am i right because i see the values in life and you're wrong because you dont"
I guess what i'm trying to say is, what has helped me is looking at it from a different point of view. Helps me with my anger issues and trust me I get heated hahaha.
Hope i helped somewhat.
I used to be like you before, and trust me, its bad. Used to smash shit at my house when my little sister or my older sister triggered me and quit doing that after i knew the value of the shit at my house. Probably broke up to 4k$ in shit, no joke lol. In my mind i usually try to think that im above the person thats fucking with me and try to ignore them to be the more adult person. If they are really harassing you, you can tell them to fuck off but dont write a paragraph like that cause it just shows your true colours. Be kind, nice and move on. If they are trying to talk to you after fucking with you, just show them that u dont want to talk to them anymore by texting them less or ignoring them more. Stay intelligent, dont be like the others. I understand that if you get frustrated you cant do anything other than tell them whats on your mind, but is it really worth it? its just going to be a negative impact on your life, because the person is most likely gonna show the message you sent to her friends and laugh about it that you got that triggered. Conclusion, just keep ur cool and grow up.
My girlfriend does this too but not the suicide part. I’d just give the girl space, don’t waste your time stressing over it Huey. Sometimes girls do this for attention because they love reaction. If you completely ignore her, what you think she’ll do? Fix her problems for you for you to come back or to continue to pull this stupid shit?? It’s a game you have to play. Think buddy, don’t beat yourself up. Don’t obviously go out of your way to the extreme to tell her to commit suicide as if she did you’re likely getting arrested and charged. It’s not worth it, if she won’t change - then why waste your time fixing her life to make yours worse. Smoke a blunt, relax “nigga” and enjoy your day. Grab a cold one with the boys. I hope this slightly helps, but I’ve been through this honesty if they choose to do it then let them it’s not your fault, it’s their own life that they are willing to give up over stupid shit.
huey
But off topic from the sucide stuff, give her space. Honesty it’s the best way to fix things lol. Enjoy the times off with the boys and full send it.
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